We’re getting
married!
After nearly seven years together, we’re tying the knot with a small ceremony on Friday, September 12, 2025, in San Francisco. That evening (and the day after!), we’re celebrating in a way that feels most like us: full-hearted, low-pretense, and deeply communal. We hope you'll come ready to sing, eat, dance, and maybe even meet someone new. We want this to feel like one big party full of warmth, good vibes, and chosen connections.
Below you’ll find everything you need: an RSVP, weekend schedule, maps, local recs, and more. We can’t wait to celebrate with you.
We’d love to know if you’ll be joining us for the wedding party, the picnic, or both.
Whether you’re singing your heart out, bringing the best snack to share, or just showing up as your beautiful self, we’re vv happy you’ll be joining us to celebrate.
Please RSVP by Friday, August 1 using the form below.
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Weekend Schedule
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Friday, September 12, 2025 | 2:00 PM
Small ceremony with immediate family only
A quiet moment with ocean views to make it official.
📍 Location: Mile Rock Overlook – Lands End
🅿️ Parking: Free lots at El Camino Del Mar (2300–2404 El Camino Del Mar) and Lands End Lookout (680 Point Lobos Ave)
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Friday, September 12, 2025 | 7:00 PM – 11:00 PM (maybe later)
THE MAIN EVENT: Karaoke, Asian food, drinks, photos and a little bit of chaos.
👗 Dress to express: funky, smooth, joyful, or just fully you.
📍 Location: Dragon Gate Bar & Grille
🅿️ Parking: Parking garage available at Jack London Square. Street parking opens up after 6 PM.
🚇 BART Access: 12-minute walk from Lake Merritt BART. Rideshares also encouraged if you're singing or sipping.
🎁 Gifts: No gifts, please! We just got rid of our storage unit but if you’d like to contribute to our Japan honeymoon fund, we’ll have a spot for that at the party.
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Saturday, September 13, 2025 | 1:00 PM – Golden Hour
A laid-back hang with snacks, music, and good people. We'll have games (get ready for volleyball), blankets, and plenty of space to lounge.
📍 Location: Marx Meadow | Picnic Tables 4-6
🅿️ Parking: Free lot near Hellman Hollow entrance off JFK Dr. If parking is full in the park, street parking between 25th-28th, check the map below
🧺 Stuff to bring:
A blanket or low chair for each person
Sunscreen and layers (Karl the Fog has a mind of his own)
Snacks and drinks for yourself, be ready to share if you’d like
Lawn games, cards, or anything that makes a picnic more fun
🚗 Pro tip: Bring one of those sweet beach wagons to lug all your stuff.
Weekend Map
We’ve put together this map to help you navigate the weekend and have a great time while you're here. It includes:
📍Ceremony, Party & Picnic Locations | links, parking info, and arrival tips
🏡 Our Home | in case you’re coordinating with us directly
🛏️ Where to Stay | suggested neighborhoods + a couple hotels in Downtown Oakland
🥳 Our Favorite Spots | tacos, coffee, bakeries, bars, art, and other Oakland/Alameda gems
🧼 Essentials | nearby Targets, Walgreens, grocery stores, etc.
Whether you're looking for the party, a solid breakfast sandwich, or some backup socks from Target, it’s all on here.
Pro tip: hit the slidey icon in the top left corner of the map to see each category’s list, or you can just find the full version here.
FAQs
Can I bring a plus-one or kids?
Please RSVP only for the number of people we’ve talked to you about directly. We have limited space and need to keep track of the headcount for both Friday and Saturday.
That said: everyone is welcome at both the party and picnic! Just make sure to include kids and guests in your RSVP so we can plan accordingly.
Do I need to bring anything for the picnic?
Yes! For Saturday at the park, plan to bring:
A blanket or low chair for each person
Sunscreen and layers (Karl the Fog has a mind of his own)
Snacks and drinks for yourself, be ready to share if you’d like
Lawn games, cards, or anything that makes a picnic more fun
Beer and wine are allowed in the park.
Where should I stay?
We’ve marked suggested Airbnb zones and two hotel options in Downtown Oakland on our weekend map. Oakland and Alameda are both great home bases for the weekend.
What’s the parking situation?
Each event listing on the weekend schedule includes nearby parking info.
BIGGEST THING: Don't leave any valuables or luggage in your car. Ever. While car break-ins have gone down considerably in the Bay within the last year or two, we don't want a wonderful weekend to be tarnished by all your stuff getting sold on Craigslist.
What if I don’t know anyone?
Totally fine, a lot of folks won’t. We’re blending circles, and everyone’s arriving from all over. Come open and curious. We’re creating the kind of energy where strangers leave as friends.
Are you registered anywhere?
Nope, no gifts, please.
We’ve cleared out our storage units and are trying to live lighter these days. That said, we are taking a honeymoon to Japan in October.
If you feel moved to help us get there (or eat ramen while we’re there), we’d love that but truly, there’s no pressure at all.
Still have questions? Just shoot us a text or call, we got you.
We can't wait to party with you.
Thanks for being part of our lives and this moment. We feel so lucky to be surrounded by the people who’ve shaped us, supported us, made us laugh, and showed up over the years.
Come ready to celebrate, your full self is exactly what we want.
Big love,
Gia + Jordan